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Sharon Gomes
Rising from the ashes of a tragedy

    Fingers pressed against her temples, Sharon Gomes shook her head as the fire that destroyed her family’s home on Dec. 20 flashed once again before her eyes.
    "Oh my God," Sharon said. "People have been so good."
    A stranger driving by her Oakdale neighborhood home in the late afternoon spotted flames in a second story window nearly two weeks ago. In a world made white by a weekend blizzard the stranger made his way to the door and alerted those inside. No one knows who he was. Sharon wants to thank him. Her daughter, four-grandchildren, and her son’s girlfriend had all gathered to help with pre-Christmas preparations. They escaped the fire unharmed.
    Next door neighbor Shannell Williams and her father, Tom, rushed into the house to rescue Gomes’s mother, Gladys Baptiste. They found Gladys (who suffers from multiple sclerosis and is dependent on a walker) part way up a stairwell determined to find her pocketbook. They escorted her to safety. Shannell suffered smoke inhalation and was treated at Tobey Hospital.
    Sharon was at Wal-Mart on an errand when the fire started. One of the last things she did before leaving the house was dress her four-pound Yorkshire terrier Paulie in a Christmas outfit. Paulie looked so cute in the midst of pre-Christmas commotion that Sharon left his outfit on.
    Alerted to the fire by a cell phone call while at Wal-Mart, Gomes quickly headed home.
    "Driving I was thinking I would not be able to live with myself if something happened to my family," she said.
    Sharon found her family safe but her dog missing. Firefighters tried to find Paulie within the burning building but could not.
    Paulie perished in the blaze.
    "He was everywhere with me, always at my side, in my bed with me. He was like a kid. He loved me, adored me. I loved him," Sharon said.
    Sadness tightened Sharon’s face and then gratitude brought comfort again.
    "The firefighters were wonderful. They went above and beyond," she said.
    Sharon said there was always a firefighter near, an arm around her shoulders, trying to lead her away from the site and to a neighbor’s house.
    "I couldn’t leave. It was like a nightmare," Sharon said.
    She stayed and watched the family’s home of 47 years turn to charred wood. She watched the handicap accessible living area her son Ben Baptiste had created within the house for his grandmother, as well as the second floor he’d added above for his mother, turn to ruin.
    "The fire chief was crying," Ben said. "(Robert) McDuffy was crying at the scene. If the town had more people like him it would be so much better."
    "When McDuffy hugs you it comes from the heart," Sharon said.
    Two days before Christmas, not quite sure why they had been asked to come, Sharon, her mother, daughter, and grandchildren walked into the Wareham Fire Station. Surrounded by firefighters, they found their way to seats just in time to see Santa arrive with two huge sacks of gifts. Santa grinned and passed wrapped boxes to children and gift cards to adults. Stunned, Sharon watched McDuffy walk toward her, reach out, and place a tiny Yorkshire terrier puppy dressed in a Christmas sweater into her hands. She couldn’t talk. Tears held too long poured forth. She fought the tears and brushed them away.
    "Thank you. Thank you so much," Sharon said.
    Displaced by the fire, Sharon and the two grandchildren in her care are living temporarily with Ben. Ben’s home lacks the handicap accessibility that Gladys needs. Gladys is now living alone in a rented handicap-accessible room. The family is trying desperately to find handicap-accessible housing that will allow Sharon, her grandchildren and mother to live together.
    Sharon said people have been so kind, giving hugs, offering whatever they can. The fire department has started a fund for the family (Sharon Gomes Fire Relief Fund, Sovereign Bank, 261 Main Street, Wareham 02571). Employed by St. Luke’s Hospital but temporarily out of work because of knee surgery (five days before the fire), Sharon said she’s struggling with all sorts of emotions.
    "It’s so hard," she said. "We weren’t expecting anything. I never expected people to show how much they care. You work for something and you think it’s yours. You never expect people to do for you. You never think you will be in a position of people doing for you and people have just been so unbelievable. It’s so hard when you are not a taker. Just pray for me, give me a hug, show me you care. A hug is worth a million dollars."
    Sharon glanced down a stairwell toward a room where her granddaughters were playing.
    "The kids are really handling it well," she said. "I told them, look around, everyone is here. Material things mean nothing but if I was to look around and have someone missing that would be everything."
    "If one message could come out of this it would be get all of the candles out of your house," Ben said, adding that a candle is suspected of causing the fire.
    Then he added a second message - Renew your insurance policy. People think they are saving money because they don’t think their house will ever catch fire.
    Ben showed his mother a list he’d been writing and then pushed it across the table.
    "Please put it in the paper that we want to thank all these people," he said.
    Heartfelt thanks to the Wareham Fire Department (especially Fire Chief McDuffy), Shannell, Tom and Ginny Williams, The Oakdale Association, Onset VFW, Red Cross, St. Luke’s Hospital, Shire HGT, Davis Lend Lease, Toy Andrade, and Reggie and Nancy Spangler, and the anonymous person who gave the family the love of a new puppy.

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Cheers and Jeers
    
     Hamatron - Oh, what would we do without this guy? He’s an endless source of material. Yes, he makes this section easy with his endless ranting, but he really finished the year with a bang.
    In the same breathe the vicious hate blogger claimed that the District Attorney’s office ruled the computer audit to be a witch hunt while also claiming the DA shouldn’t give the computer disks back to the town because it is conducting an on-going investigation.
    Well, if the DA has already decided the computer audit was a witch hunt, why would there be a need for further investigation? That doesn’t make any sense. A Special Grand Jury was convened and dissolved without a finding on the question of whether the town did anything illegal by ordering the computer audit. So if the DA is no longer investigating the legality of the audit itself then it isn’t a witch hunt, is it?
    For the record, the Observer doesn’t believe the DA is investigating anything. We believe the DA is covering-up evidence contained on those disks for political reasons. We just wanted to once again point out the truck-sized holes in logical that are evident in nearly every Hamatron writes.
    Oh, and the town clerk told us that Elizabeth’s term as library trustee expired in 1989.
    Double, oh. We were scooped on the Bliss settlement? The amount of the settlement was reportedly $30,000. DeFelice doesn't have a clue what he's talking about.

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Crystal Ball

    A look ahead to 2010: The Take Back Wareham crew will wake up on April 7 and realize they couldn’t fool all of the people all of the time ... Rick Stanley will remain police chief throughout the year ... A non-binding resolution on April’s town ballot will show overwhelming support for the Westfield project ... Hamatron will be very popular in prison ... Wareham will have a new state representative ... Francis will continue to be a running joke ... The Wareham Courier will fold ... A new type of technology will emerge that everybody wants but nobody needs ... The power elite will finally realize that all their money and influence could not silence the truth forever ...

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Down the Road - Andrea Smith
Living life under the radar

    One of the best things about being a reporter is that it gives you an opportunity to meet the nicest people. "Salt of the earth" is how my father would have described them - steady, dependable, dedicated, solid people with hearts of gold.
    Last November in Marion on a Veteran’s Day far too cold I found myself surrounded by the "Salt of the Earth." Veteran’s young and old, along with active military, stood with tier uniform crisp. Their salutes cast an image of history and an assurance of safety.
    Guest speaker Lt. Col. Barbara Burnett stood out among the military. Burnett, with her husband and 6-year-old daughter looking on, fought a battle against tears several times during her address. At that moment I saw the face of America’s current wars: a parent with a small child, a heart of gold dressed in a uniform, a mourner of lives lost thinking about soldiers in current battles. A column that I wrote based upon that moment touched Burnett and brought my husband and me an invitation to visit the 6th Space Warning Squadron at the Cape Cod Air Force Station.
    In December John and I joined the squadron and several guests for a holiday luncheon and tour (to the degree that security would allow) of the radar station. It was there I found not the face of America’s newest wars but rather the faces and images of our country’s security. In a world too filled with fear, and a week during which terror has raged once again, I offer those faces and images to you. 
     High on a hill, so high that snow often falls even though it is raining everywhere else nearby, there’s a 10-story arch-shaped building that glistens in the sun and looks like it belongs in the pages of a futuristic story book. Acres of grass and an imposing fence surround the building. Armed guards pace the fenced perimeter, their eyes constantly scanning as far as they can see. In the cold wind and isolation their steady duty sends a shiver of reality and the thought that too much is often taken for granted.
    There’s a second shiver in the guard house. It’s comfortably heated, but identifications are checked twice, and there are so many questions of visitors that security takes on a tone so serious it can’t be described with words. Two revolving gates await, the kind that have floor-to-ceiling steel bars and only allows one person go through at a time. Everywhere you turn there’s two of everything. You see it time and again during the tour. If something fails there’s an instant backup - gates and computers, radar, and generators so huge that they look an airplane fuselage.
    Through the gates you enter a windowless world. There isn’t a single window that looks out upon the world in the entire radar station.
    "Sometimes we never see daylight," Burnett said. "Sometimes we come to work in the dark and go home in the dark."
    Every door is bomb-proofed. Every new area requires a security clearance before being entered. Deeper and deeper into the building you go until the depth makes you wonder how people can do this day after day. In all this isolation, how can they smile?
    Radar screens with blipping lights, computers, back up systems, and streams of wire woven in a myriad of patterns all flash before the eye. The cost of the radar station’s electricity is $5,000 a day. You think your electric bill was bad until the radar station leaves you stunned.
    There in the depths of security, in the rooms behind bomb-proofed doors, are the faces: young and old, intense, eyes watching, ears listening for the one moment that might signal the beginning of the end.
    Nine thousand satellites orbit the earth. The radar system recognizes every one. It can sense an object the size of a basketball 3,000 miles away. It knows when something belongs there and recognizes when something doesn’t. Room after room components and skill blend one into another. The squadron watches and listens, tests and retests. You watch them and you feel humbled. You realize with a sense of peace that your life is may rests in their able hands.
    In the midst of the holiday luncheon an alarm went off following the launch of an unknown object. It turned out to be a weather satellite launched from within South America.
    Enjoying lunch in a conference area we had no idea what was transpiring deep within the radar station. That’s the way of life for the squadron 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Deep within the depths of a 10-story building with no windows they watch over the world while our lives go on. 
     May the New Year bring peace and a place in your hearts for the 6th Space Warning Squadron at Cape Cod Air Station. They mean more to you than you could possibly realize.

 

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2009 - The Year in Review

    The stories and images of 2009 will certainly jog some memories and tug at some hearts. It was a year of political turmoil in Wareham, with investigations into alleged corruption often taking center stage. But there were moments of inspiration and moments of sadness sprinkled in between. Please join us as we take one last look back on the news-filled year. And may you all have a very safe and happy New Year. Cheers.

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